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Actually, Nevermind: Essays by Taylor Tomlinson

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“One of the most acclaimed, in-demand superstars of comedy” (Jason Zinoman, The New York Times) Taylor Tomlinson explores all the things she’s changed her mind about, from the serious to the absurd, in her hilarious, heartfelt, and brilliant debut. As she approaches thirty-four—the same age her mother, Angela, was at her death—Tomlinson grapples with fear and ambition, identity and doubt, and all the ways her mind has changed since the day her mom died. In these sharply observed, uproariously funny, and moving original essays, Tomlinson leads readers through a tour of her brain and her shifting opinions about everything from love and relationships, mental health and therapy, religion and sex, food and body image, being the eldest daughter and the only woman in late-night TV, to ghosts, morning people, and more. With the same unflinching honesty that fuels her beloved stand-up specials, she captures the dizzying contradictions of adulthood in the modern world: wanting independence while craving reassurance, chasing self-improvement while resisting change, and finally learning that certainty can be overrated. “True wisdom,” writes Tomlinson, “is accepting how little you know, and real maturity is becoming as flexible as possible. (Emotionally, not physically. Real maturity also means needing to stretch way more).” A “fearless” (NPR) comedian who “makes even the heaviest subjects seem spikily funny” (Jason Zinoman, The New York Times), Tomlinson now brings her natural storytelling gifts and incisive wit to the page in Actually, Nevermind.

“One of the most acclaimed, in-demand superstars of comedy” (Jason Zinoman, The New York Times) Taylor Tomlinson explores all the things she’s changed her mind about, from the serious to the absurd, in her hilarious, heartfelt, and brilliant debut. As she approaches thirty-four—the same age her mother, Angela, was at her death—Tomlinson grapples with fear and ambition, identity and doubt, and all the ways her mind has changed since the day her mom died. In these sharply observed, uproariously funny, and moving original essays, Tomlinson leads readers through a tour of her brain and her shifting opinions about everything from love and relationships, mental health and therapy, religion and sex, food and body image, being the eldest daughter and the only woman in late-night TV, to ghosts, morning people, and more. With the same unflinching honesty that fuels her beloved stand-up specials, she captures the dizzying contradictions of adulthood in the modern world: wanting independence while craving reassurance, chasing self-improvement while resisting change, and finally learning that certainty can be overrated. “True wisdom,” writes Tomlinson, “is accepting how little you know, and real maturity is becoming as flexible as possible. (Emotionally, not physically. Real maturity also means needing to stretch way more).” A “fearless” (NPR) comedian who “makes even the heaviest subjects seem spikily funny” (Jason Zinoman, The New York Times), Tomlinson now brings her natural storytelling gifts and incisive wit to the page in Actually, Nevermind.

  • Publisher: Gallery Books

    Title: Actually, Nevermind: Essays

    Author: Taylor Tomlinson

    On Sale Date: September 22, 2026

    ISBN 13: 9781668097236

    ISBN 10: 1668097230

    Format: Hardcover

    Retail Price: $32.00

    BISAC: Humor / Form / Essays; Biography & Autobiography / Entertainment & Performing Arts; Biography & Autobiography / Personal Memoirs

    Page Count: 304 pages

  • Taylor Tomlinson is an internationally touring comedian with four Netflix specials — Quarter-Life Crisis, Look at You, Have It All, and Prodigal Daughter — and was previously the host of After Midnight. She has been recognized by The Hollywood Reporter, Forbes, Time, and Variety for her work in entertainment. She lives in Los Angeles. Actually, Nevermind is her first book.

  • Advance praise is calling it funny, frank, and fearless:

    • “Seriously funny.” — Kirkus Reviews (starred review)

    • “Unwaveringly frank and never less than endearing…a rousing ode to indecision.” — Publishers Weekly

    • “Makes even the heaviest subjects seem spikily funny.” — Jason Zinoman, The New York Times

    • “Fearless.” — NPR

This book is for you if

  • You’ve watched every one of Taylor Tomlinson’s specials and want her voice on the page.

  • You want essays that use comedy to get somewhere honest, not just somewhere funny.

  • You’re approaching an age that meant something specific to someone you loved.

  • You want a debut book from a comedian who already knows how to land an ending.

  • You like humor writing that’s frank about relationships, family, and mental health.

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